{"id":4417,"date":"2021-07-12T02:35:19","date_gmt":"2021-07-12T02:35:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.rev.mydaye.com\/?p=4417"},"modified":"2021-07-12T03:37:53","modified_gmt":"2021-07-12T03:37:53","slug":"dont-let-my-frankness-put-you-off","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.mydaye.com\/?p=4417","title":{"rendered":"Don&#8217;t let my frankness put you off"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"initial-letter\"><div>\n<div style=\"color: rgb(33, 33, 33); background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);\" dir=\"auto\">  I am often confused with being a mean person or anti social when in fact I am full of candor.&nbsp; I am aloof and that is frequently off-putting by itself but then add to that for those used to people not saying what the mean and meaning what they say my usual   candor that is quite unusual to most people.<\/div>\n<div style=\"color: rgb(33, 33, 33); background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);\" dir=\"auto\">  <\/div>\n<div style=\"color: rgb(33, 33, 33); background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);\" dir=\"auto\">  <\/div>\n<div style=\"color: rgb(33, 33, 33); background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);\" dir=\"auto\">\n<div style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px -15px 6px; font-variant-ligatures: no-common-ligatures; font-size: 16px; font-family: Lato, \"Open Sans\", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; display: flex; flex-wrap: wrap; color: rgb(33, 37, 41); text-align: left; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255)\">\n<div style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding: 0px 15px; min-height: 1px; flex: 0 0 100%; max-width: 100%\">\n<h1 style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 0.5rem; padding: 0px 15px 0px 0px; font-weight: 700; font-size: 48px; line-height: 50px; font-family: \"Playfair Display\", serif; color: rgb(48, 51, 54); display: inline; letter-spacing: 1.2px\">  candor<\/h1>\n<p>  <span>&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-weight: 700; font-size: 26px; line-height: 36px; font-family: \"Playfair Display\", serif; color: rgb(74, 125, 149); display: inline; letter-spacing: 0.5px\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/dictionary\/noun\" style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; display: inline\">noun<\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-variant-ligatures: no-common-ligatures; font-size: 16px; font-family: Lato, \"Open Sans\", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(33, 37, 41); text-align: left; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255)\">\n<div style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px\"><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px -15px; font-variant-ligatures: no-common-ligatures; font-size: 18px; line-height: 22px; font-family: Lato, \"Open Sans\", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; display: flex; flex-wrap: wrap; color: rgb(34, 95, 115); text-align: left; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255)\">\n<div style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding: 0px 15px; min-height: 1px; flex-basis: 0px; flex-grow: 1; max-width: 100%\">  <span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-family: \"Open Sans\", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-word\">can\u00b7\u200bdor<\/span><span>&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-family: \"Open Sans\", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.2px\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding: 0px 7px\">|<\/span><span>&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px\">\\<\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px\"><span>&nbsp;<\/span>\u02c8kan-d\u0259r<\/span><span>&nbsp;<\/span><a data-lang=\"en_us\" data-file=\"candor01\" data-dir=\"c\" href=\"https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/dictionary\/candor?pronunciation&amp;lang=en_us&amp;dir=c&amp;file=candor01\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/dictionary\/candor?pronunciation&amp;lang=en_us&amp;dir=c&amp;file=candor01\" data-title=\"How to pronounce candor (audio)\" title=\"How to pronounce candor (audio)\" style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: -5px 1px 0px 0px; vertical-align: middle; outline: 0px; color: rgb(38, 86, 103); background-image: none !important; background-size: 22px 22px; background-repeat: no-repeat; display: inline-block; height: 22px; text-indent: -9999px; width: 22px\"><\/a><span>&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 0px -7px\">,<span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px\">-\u02ccd\u022fr<\/span><span>&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px\">\\<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-variant-ligatures: no-common-ligatures; font-size: 16px; font-family: Lato, \"Open Sans\", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(33, 37, 41); text-align: left; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255)\">\n<div style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 18px -15px 0px; display: flex; flex-wrap: wrap\">\n<div style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding: 0px 15px; min-height: 1px; flex-basis: 0px; flex-grow: 1; max-width: 100%\">\n<h2 style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 0.5em; font-weight: 700; font-size: 22px; line-height: 26px; font-family: \"Open Sans\", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(38, 86, 103); letter-spacing: 0.3px; display: inline\">  Definition of<span>&nbsp;<\/span><em style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-style: italic; display: inline\">candor<\/em><\/h2>\n<p style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 0.5em; font-weight: 700; font-size: 22px; line-height: 26px; font-family: \"Open Sans\", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(38, 86, 103); letter-spacing: 0.3px; display: inline\">\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px\">\n<div style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 25px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 33px\">  <span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 15px 0px 0px; font-size: 18px; line-height: 22px; font-family: \"Open Sans\", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.2px; display: block\">  <\/p>\n<div style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; display: inline\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-weight: 700\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; left: 0px; top: 0px\">1<\/span><\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; color: rgb(48, 51, 54); display: inline\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px\"><strong style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-weight: bolder\">:<span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/dictionary\/unreserved\" style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(38, 86, 103); background-image: linear-gradient(90deg, rgb(151, 190, 206) 100%, transparent 0px); background-position: 0px 1.15em; background-repeat: repeat-x; background-size: 3px 1px\">unreserved<\/a>,   honest, or sincere expression<span>&nbsp;<\/span><strong style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-weight: bolder\">:<span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/dictionary\/forthrightness\" style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(38, 86, 103); text-transform: uppercase; background-image: linear-gradient(90deg, rgb(151, 190, 206) 100%, transparent 0px); background-position: 0px 1.15em; background-repeat: repeat-x; background-size: 3px 1px\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; text-transform: uppercase !important\">FORTHRIGHTNESS<\/span><\/a><\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding-top: 5px; padding-bottom: 0px !important; display: block; color: rgb(34, 95, 115)\">the<span>&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-style: italic\">candor<\/span><span>&nbsp;<\/span>with   which he acknowledged a weakness in his own case<\/span><\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px !important; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px; color: rgb(82, 90, 91); display: block\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-size: 18px; line-height: 22px\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px\">\u2014   Aldous Huxley<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p>  <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 25px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 33px\">  <span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 15px 0px 0px; font-size: 18px; line-height: 22px; font-family: \"Open Sans\", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.2px; display: block\">  <\/p>\n<div style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; display: inline\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-weight: 700\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; left: 0px; top: 0px\">2<\/span><\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; color: rgb(48, 51, 54); display: inline\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px\"><strong style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-weight: bolder\">:<span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/strong>freedom   from<span>&nbsp;<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/dictionary\/prejudice#h1\" style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(38, 86, 103); background-image: linear-gradient(90deg, rgb(151, 190, 206) 100%, transparent 0px); background-position: 0px 1.15em; background-repeat: repeat-x; background-size: 3px 1px\">prejudice<\/a><span>&nbsp;<\/span>or   malice<span>&nbsp;<\/span><strong style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-weight: bolder\">:<span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/dictionary\/fairness\" style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(38, 86, 103); text-transform: uppercase; background-image: linear-gradient(90deg, rgb(151, 190, 206) 100%, transparent 0px); background-position: 0px 1.15em; background-repeat: repeat-x; background-size: 3px 1px\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; text-transform: uppercase !important\">FAIRNESS<\/span><\/a><\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding-top: 5px; padding-bottom: 0px !important; display: block; color: rgb(34, 95, 115)\">\u2026   a heavy accusation \u2026 from a gentleman of your talents, liberality, and<span>&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-style: italic\">candor<\/span>.<\/span><\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px !important; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px; color: rgb(82, 90, 91); display: block\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-size: 18px; line-height: 22px\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px\">\u2014   Noah Webster<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p>  <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 25px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 66px\">  <span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 15px 0px 0px; font-size: 18px; line-height: 22px; font-family: \"Open Sans\", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.2px; display: block\">  <\/p>\n<div style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; display: inline\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-weight: 700\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; left: 0px; top: 0px\">3<\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; left: 33px\">a<\/span><\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding: 0px 0px 10px; font-style: italic; display: inline\">literary<span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; color: rgb(48, 51, 54); display: inline\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px\"><strong style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-weight: bolder\">:<span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/dictionary\/brightness\" style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(38, 86, 103); text-transform: uppercase; background-image: linear-gradient(90deg, rgb(151, 190, 206) 100%, transparent 0px); background-position: 0px 1.15em; background-repeat: repeat-x; background-size: 3px 1px\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; text-transform: uppercase !important\">BRIGHTNESS<\/span><\/a>,<span>&nbsp;<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/dictionary\/brilliance\" style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(38, 86, 103); text-transform: uppercase; background-image: linear-gradient(90deg, rgb(151, 190, 206) 100%, transparent 0px); background-position: 0px 1.15em; background-repeat: repeat-x; background-size: 3px 1px\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; text-transform: uppercase !important\">BRILLIANCE<\/span><\/a><\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding-top: 5px; padding-bottom: 0px !important; display: block; color: rgb(34, 95, 115)\">the   sun poured with a more golden<span>&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-style: italic\">candor<\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px !important; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px; color: rgb(82, 90, 91); display: block\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-size: 18px; line-height: 22px\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px\">\u2014   Christoper Morley<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p>  <\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 15px 0px 0px; font-size: 18px; line-height: 22px; font-family: \"Open Sans\", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.2px; display: block\">  <\/p>\n<div style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; display: inline\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-weight: 700\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; left: 33px\">b<\/span><\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding: 0px 0px 10px; font-style: italic; display: inline\">obsolete<span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; color: rgb(48, 51, 54); display: inline\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px\"><strong style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; font-weight: bolder\">:<span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/strong>unstained   purity<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p>  <\/span><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>  <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am often confused with being a mean person or anti social when in fact I am full of candor.&nbsp; I am aloof and that is frequently off-putting by itself but then add to that for those used to people not saying what the mean and meaning what they say my usual candor that is [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4417","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-main"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.mydaye.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4417","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.mydaye.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.mydaye.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.mydaye.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.mydaye.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4417"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blog.mydaye.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4417\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.mydaye.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4417"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.mydaye.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4417"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.mydaye.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4417"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}