The other day I was thinking and came up with the most profound musing I think I have ever had:
If your bad memories are keeping you in a bad place presently, you need to re-imagine how your past went so those bad memories are a thing of the past.
Understand I am not saying “Forgive and Forget” or some bullshit like that. I am saying nothing shy of redrawing your past in your memory to reflect what should have happened if your parents were better people, if you spouse was a better person, if Johnny Law hadn’t been right around the corner, if you siblings weren’t pieces of shit, and last but not the least if you had turned left instead of right on that day when you missed your chance at that million dollar payday.
For me, I re-wrote the time I went to a party and instead of standing around for hours not meeting anyone I smiled and engaged everyone there and met some great friends, the love of my life and the person I will spend the rest of my life with.
Bad memories don’t have to keep you in a bad place! Change the memory and make yourself happier. It is no one’s business other than you since it is your memory and no one elses!!!!!!!!!
Peace be with you always and remember if you’re not peaceful you can change it to fit.
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